Partner Comfort
How does being circumcised affect intimacy for a partner? This is a topic with a wide range of experiences, and what works and feels good can be very personal. Open communication between partners is always the most important thing. Let's explore some of the different experiences people share.
Potential Differences Some Partners Notice
Some partners (often women during intercourse) report experiencing differences compared to sex with an intact partner. These sometimes include:
Abrasiveness or friction: Without the foreskin's natural gliding function, the direct friction of the penile skin against vaginal walls can sometimes feel rough, abrasive, or uncomfortable, especially without adequate lubrication.
Need for more lube: Good quality lubricant often becomes essential to ensure comfortable, smooth gliding and prevent irritation for both partners
Sensation & orgasm: Some women report differences in sensation or finding orgasm more difficult, while others do not. Experiences here seem highly varied.
These potential issues are discussed in detail on Kristen O'Hara's website (contains explicit graphic illustrations and strong viewpoints, viewer discretion advised) and also in this article by Dr. Ronald Goldman.
Whether or not circumcision affects women's pleasure is very controversial and individual. Scientific studies looking into this have produced varied results, with some finding no significant difference, and others noting potential differences for some women.
Positive Experiences and Preferences
On the other hand, many partners report positive experiences or even a preference for sex with circumcised men. Common reasons mentioned include:
More stimulation: Some partners enjoy the specific sensation provided by direct contact with the glans.
Hygiene or aesthetics: Some women simply prefer the look, or feel it's easier to maintain hygiene (though good hygiene is possible regardless of circumcision status).
What About Scientific Studies?
Research on male circumcision's impact on female partner satisfaction shows mixed results. Some studies find no major difference, while others suggest a significant difference in specific areas (like pain or orgasm difficulty) for some women. Factors like lubrication, relationship dynamics, and individual sensitivity likely play a large role.
There's no single scientific 'answer' that overrides personal experience and communication between partners. The most important thing is fostering a connection where both partners feel comfortable, heard, and satisfied. Exploring together and communicating openly is the best way to achieve that.
Any comments or questions? What are your experiences?
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